Guess What? You May Have a Fear of Commitment

Guess What? You May Have a Fear of Commitment

I have a secret to tell you. I used to have a fear of commitment, what's even more shocking is that you may have one too. This fear of commitment is probably embedded deep within your subconscious, usually hiding behind a deep-rooted fear of being alone or abandoned.   I did not come to this earth shaking revelation overnight, no, the light bulb didn’t suddenly go off. It wasn't until I spent years of proclaiming myself available and ready to meet my soulmate only to find myself stuck in a never ending rut unavailable men did I begin to realize...

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Rejection: The Gift That Keeps on Giving

Rejection: The Gift That Keeps on Giving

He reached for my hand but I recoiled. As I turned toward the window I could feel it swelling like an ocean, being held back by pure will alone. We were only a few minutes from my apartment but I knew I would not be able to hold it in much longer and just like that my ocean began to rush in and I was crying uncontrollably. He reached for my hand once more to console me and this time I acquiesced.

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Your Heart & Soul Knows What is True

Your Heart & Soul Knows What is True

She had blondish, long (dred) locs and an earring in her nose. I'm guessing she was in her early twenties but that didn't really matter to me because I was drawn to her energy. I've always wanted to be this kind of free-spirited, boho creative wild woman.  The kind of woman I had imagined her to be but never could be because I was too afraid to let go of the conventional world.

One half of my soul has always been bound by fear. For many years I have invested energy into building a fence around my heart.

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Your Intuition Is Always Speaking to You

Your Intuition Is Always Speaking to You

I once had a dream where I heard a voice speak to me in Swahili. Never having heard, studied or been exposed to the language before I jolted out of my sleep and began to scribble in the dark. When I awakened I searched on the internet for the word that was so loudly repeated to me, "Upendo," which is the translation for LOVE in Swahili.

I truly believe that the Universe delivered a powerful message to me that evening.

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